Merry Christmas

Christmas NOT Clausmas

Lesson

Many ways that can make people become mature and wiser.. The easy way is to learn from experiences of others.. from stories & movies.. The uneasy way is from the things that we have to face or deal.. but that's a valuable lesson which make us go to high level and become a better person. So keep your positive mind alive & have faith..

Banyak cara yang dapat mendewasakan & membuat orang menjadi lebih bijaksana.. Cara yang mudah adalah belajar dari pengalaman-pengalaman orang lain.. dari cerita-cerita & film-film.. Cara yang tidak mudah adalah dari hal-hal yang harus kita hadapi / alami.. tapi itulah pelajaran berharga yang membuat kita naik kelas & menjadi pribadi yang lebih baik lagi. Jadi jagalah pikiran positif kita untuk tetap hidup dan milikilah iman.

A Relationship

A relationship needs communication & maintenance.. too much understanding or ignoring brings emptiness and open the door of brokenness. 

Sebuah hubungan membutuhkan komunikasi & pemeliharaan.. terlalu banyak memahami atau mengabaikan membawa/mengundang kekosongan dan membuka pintu kehancuran.

Fight & Let Go

There things that are worth to fight for.. and there are things that we just need to let go.

Ada hal-hal yang patut diperjuangkan .. dan ada hal-hal yang kita hanya perlu lepaskan.

Every Relationship

Every relationship needs maintenance.. if it's collapsing, it's because we allow it to happen. ~ Setiap hubungan membutuhkan pemeliharaan .. jika itu runtuh, itu karena kita membiarkan hal itu terjadi.

Relationship between couples / parent & kids / brothers & sisters / family / friends / colleagues ect ~ Hubungan antara pasangan / orang tua & anak-anak / kakak & adik / keluarga / teman / kolega dll.

Dirgahayu RI 68

Dirgahayu Indonesia-ku.. Trima kasih utk para pahlawan & pejuang negeri-ku.. Slamat hari kemerdekaan untuk qta smua.. ~ Keep Pancasila & Bhinneka Tunggal Ika alive.. God with us..

Long live Indonesia-ku .. Thank you for the heroes and warriors of my country.. Happy Independence day for us all .. ~ Keep Pancasila and Bhinneka Tunggal Ika alive .. God with us ..

Eid Mubarak 1434H

Minions

The one eye / Steward is my 2nd sons' favorite.. for me they are all so cuteeeeee...

Cover Tune Grab Bag - "Ob-La-Di, Ob-La-Da"

If In One Community

Jika dlm 1 komunitas.. ada 1 atau 2 org yg kurang / tidak suka dgn qta.. atau ada masalah dgn qta.. mgkn qta msh bs beranggapan.. aah.. emang mrk-nya aza yg bermasalah.. Tapi klo dah sampe sbagian besar dlm komunitas itu kurang / tidak suka dgn qta.. dan qta sedang / pernah punya masalah dgn hampir stiap mereka.. bukan kayanya lagi.. tp qta memang dah HARUS mengkoreksi diri.. Kecuali klo mmg EGO qta cukup besar shingga menutup mata.. hati.. & kedewasaan qta.. Mo blg apa deh.. gk ada yg bs lawan.. kecuali kehancuran.. :))

If in one community .. there are 1 or 2 people who do not like us.. or we are having / had problem with.. maybe we can still assume.. aah.. they have their own problem indeed.. But if its almost the entire community who do not like us.. and we're having / had a problem with almost every one of them.. it's not maybe anymore.. but definitely we need to check & correct our self.. Unless our EGO is large enough that could closed our eyes .. heart .. and maturity .. What can we say.. nothing can be opposed.. except destruction .. :))

Song: Try ~ Pink

How many times I've heard this song on the radio.. nice one.. I knew the singer is Pink. but don't know the title.. I asked Telis (my son), he didn't know it either.. and today I just found out the title is.. "TRY" :)



Brapa x denger nih lagu di radio.. enak banget.. tau yg nyanyi Pink.. tp gak tau judulnya.. tanya Telis, dia jg gk tau.. br hari ini tau judulnya.. "TRY" :)

Sababay Winery | Wine Lokal untuk Konsumsi Global

Song: You Are

If I had no voice.
If I had no tongue.
I would dance for you like the rising sun.
And when that day comes and I see your face
I will shout your endless glorious praise.
If I had no voice.
If had no tongue.
I would dance for you like the rising sun.
And when that day comes and I see your face
I will your endless glorious praise.

You are the Song, you are the Song
I'm singing
You are the air, you are the air
I'm breathe in
You are the hope, you are the hope.
I'm needing
Whoa... You are

HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN

HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO
SAY ABOUT MEN :

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending... Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals. Look for someone complimentary...
not supplementary.

Dating is fun... Even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes... When a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says... You should know that: You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts... ❤

Good Friday

Easter: Jesus' Trial

Easter: Jesus' Death

Song: Worn

Worn by Tenth Avenue North




I'm tired, I'm worn
My heart is heavy
From the work it takes
To keep on breathing
I've made mistakes
I've let my hope fail
My soul feels crushed
By the weight of this world
And I know that You can give me rest
So I cry out with all that I have left

Let me see redemption win
Let me know the struggle ends
That You can mend a heart that's frail and torn

I'm tired, I'm worn
My heart is heavy
From the work it takes
To keep on breathing
I've made mistakes
I've let my hope fail
My soul feels crushed
By the weight of this world
And I know that You can give me rest
So I cry out with all that I have left

Let me see redemption win
Let me know the struggle ends
That You can mend a heart that's frail and torn

I wanna know a song can rise
From the ashes of a broken life
And all that's dead inside can be reborn
‘Cause I'm worn

I know I need
To lift my eyes up
But I'm too weak
Life just won't let up
And I know that You can give me rest
So I cry out with all that I have left

Let me see redemption win
Let me know the struggle ends
That You can mend a heart that's frail and torn

I'm tired, I'm worn
My heart is heavy
From the work it takes
To keep on breathing
I've made mistakes
I've let my hope fail
My soul feels crushed
By the weight of this world
And I know that You can give me rest
So I cry out with all that I have left

Let me see redemption win
Let me know the struggle ends
That You can mend a heart that's frail and torn

I wanna know a song can rise
From the ashes of a broken life
And all that's dead inside can be reborn
‘Cause I'm worn

I'm tired, I'm worn
My heart is heavy
From the work it takes
To keep on breathing
I've made mistakes
I've let my hope fail
My soul feels crushed
By the weight of this world
And I know that You can give me rest
So I cry out with all that I have left

Let me see redemption win
Let me know the struggle ends
That You can mend a heart that's frail and torn

I wanna know a song can rise
From the ashes of a broken life
And all that's dead inside can be reborn
‘Cause I'm worn

I know I need
To lift my eyes up
But I'm too weak
Life just won't let up
And I know that You can give me rest
So I cry out with all that I have left

My prayers are wearing thin
I'm worn
Even before the day begins
I'm worn
I've lost my will to fight
I'm worn
So Heaven come and flood my eyes

Let me see redemption win
Let me know the struggle ends
That You can mend a heart that's frail and torn
I wanna know a song can rise
From the ashes of a broken life
And all that's dead inside can be reborn
‘Cause I'm worn

Yes, all that's dead inside will be reborn
Though, I'm worn
I'm worn

Change Our Thinking

T.D. Jakes Ministries: In allowing God to change our thinking, we remove the grimy deposits left in our souls by our experiences, and embrace the entire warehouse of giftings God will use to propel us into our future. 

Dengan membiarkan Allah untuk mengubah pemikiran kita, kita menghapus deposito kotor yang tersisa di jiwa kita oleh pengalaman kita, dan merangkul seluruh gudang hadiah Allah yang akan digunakan untuk mendorong kita ke masa depan kita.

Wow.. Amin.. :)

Sababay Winery | A Custodian of Nature

The President Director of Sababay Winery, Mrs Mulyati Gozali says “… our vision is to be the best professionally managed local winery, the leader in South East Asia, a transfer of winemaking technology dedicated to Indonesia’s own agriculture potentials through direct fair trade business practices and integrated farming”. She stresses that “it is our philosophy to be a custodian of nature”.

If not us, the people of Indonesia, who care about this country .. Who else ..? It's about time .. :)

Sababay Winery Facebook

Presiden Direktur Sababay Winery, Mrs Mulyati Gozali mengatakan "... visi kami adalah menjadi anggur terbaik yang dikelola secara profesional, pemimpin di Asia Tenggara, transfer teknologi winemaking didedikasikan untuk potensi pertanian Indonesia sendiri melalui praktek bisnis perdagangan langsung yang adil dan pertanian yang terintegrasi". Dia menekankan bahwa "itu adalah filosofi kami untuk menjadi penjaga alam".

Kalau bukan kita, orang Indonesia, yang peduli dengan negeri ini.. Siapa lagi..?? Sudah saatnya.. :) 

Song: All The People In The World

Another favorite of mine.. Safri Duo

Complete & Finished

A friend posted this in my High School Group at Blackberry

No English dictionary has been able to explain the difference between the two words "COMPLETE" and "FINISHED".

Some people say there's no difference between COMPLETE and FINISHED, but there is:
When you marry the right woman, You're COMPLETE... and when you marry the wrong woman, You're FINISHED... and.. When your wife catches you with another woman, you're... COMPLETELY FINISHED...!! and when your wife likes shopping so much, you're...  FINISHED COMPLETELY!!

ƗƗɑà..ƗƗɑa..ƗƗɑa..ƗƗɑ..  :))

No Man Is Holy

No man is holy in this world.. except Christ alone, but it is not a barrier for God to use them and be a part of His work in this world. HE can use you and me .. The question is.. Are we willing to do so..?

Tidak ada manusia yang suci di dunia ini.. kecuali Kristus sendiri, tapi itu tidak menjadi penghalang bagi Tuhan untuk memakainya dan menjadi bagian dari pekerjaan-Nya dalam dunia ini. DIA bisa memakai Anda dan saya.. Pertanyaannya.. Apakah kita bersedia melakukannya..? 

Books Of the Bible

Awesome :)

Book of the Bible is a book of real-life guides & perfect one .. If we really scour verse by verse .. we'll find anything we face in this life journey. God already knows and has prepared his word to guide our lives.

 

Kitab Alkitab adalah buku panduan hidup nyata yang sempurna.. Jika kita benar-benar menyelusuri ayat demi ayat.. kita akan menemukan apapun yang kita hadapi dalam perjalanan hidup ini. Tuhan sudah mengetahuinya dan sudah menyiapkan firman-Nya sebagai panduan perjalanan hidup kita.

TV LCD LG 32"

Monday, Feb 18, 2013
Before lunch time I got a phone call from Ganesha Bank.. telling me that my name is one of the winner for TV LCD LG 32" of draw savings.. Wow.. Yippiee... I wrote about the good news on my FB and BB's status. One of my friend responded the news & said in my High School BB group: "she bought 10 CD for helping the parent who the son is hospitalized and she got TV from somewhere else.." :) God is great.. isn't it.. ♧Ʈhäƞĸ◦ƔoƱ♧ Lord.

Wednesday, Feb 20, 2013
One of my cousin saw the list of the draw savings winner from Ganesha Bank and he saw my name in it.. so he captured it and sent it to me. There is the account number on that list.. Wait the minute.. I have to check which account that's belong to


Actually I have several accounts in that bank.. some are personal (mine & my boys); and 2 are for social activities.. which means not belong to me personally.

After I checked it.. I found out the winner account is belong to JCK.

Okay.. Now I have 2 options..

1. Keep it quite and enjoy the TV, no body knows anyway.. which might hurt the eyes who watching it.. ┼┼ee..┼┼ee..┼┼ee..┼┼ee.. or..
2. Tell the truth and let JCK take advantage of it.. 

And of course, I choose the second option.. that's called integrity.

We're still not sure what we gonna do with it, but the point is I already gave the right of the gift to JCK's team.

The message which I get from this case.. God is so happy with what JCK is doing, He even wants to participate by sending His blessing through Bank Ganesha..  a TV LCD LG 32" :D ┼┼ee..┼┼ee..┼┼ee..┼┼ee.. ♧Ʈhäƞ‎​ĸ◦ƔoƱ♧ Lord.. You're awesome.



Senin, 18 Februari, 2013
Sebelum waktu makan siang gw mendapat telepon dari Bank Ganesha.. mengatakan bahwa nama gw adalah salah satu pemenang untuk TV LCD LG 32 dalam pengundian tabungan.. Wow.. Yippiee... gw menulis tentang kabar baik ini di status FB dan BB gw. Salah satu teman gw menanggapi berita ini & mengatakan di group BB SMA gw: "die beli 10 CD untuk membantu orang tua yang anaknya dirawat di rumah sakit dan dia mendapat TV dari tempat lain .." :) Allah Maha Besar.. kan .. ♧ ♧ Ʈrima Kasih◦ Tuhan.

Rabu, 20 Februari, 2013
Salah satu sepupu saya melihat daftar nama undian tabungan pemenang dari Bank Ganesha dan ia melihat nama saya di didalamnya.. lalu die memphotonya dan mengirimkannya ke gw. Ada nomor rekening dalam daftar itu .. Tunggu sebentar .. Saya harus memeriksa akun milik siapa itu.

Sebenarnya gw memiliki beberapa akun di bank itu .. beberapa milik pribadi (gw & anak-anak gw), dan ada 2 untuk kegiatan sosial.. yang berarti bukan milik pribadi gw.Setelah gw periksa.. Saya menemukan rekening yang menang adalah milik JCK.Oke .. Sekarang gw punya 2 pilihan.. 

1. Diam dan menikmati TV itu, gak ada yang tau ini.. yang mana mungkin bisa menyakiti mata yang menontonnya .. ┼┼ee..┼┼ee..┼┼ee..┼┼ee.. atau..  
2. Gw mengatakan yang sebenarnya dan membiarkan JCK mengambil keuntungan dari itu .. 

Dan tentu saja, gw memilih opsi kedua.. Itu yang disebut integritas. 

Kami masih tidak tau apa yang akan kami lakukan dengan itu, tapi intinya adalah gw sudah memberikan hak hadiah itu kepada tim JCK. 

Pesan yang gw dapatkan dari hal ini .. Allah sangat senang dengan apa JCK lakukan, Ia bahkan ingin ikut berpartisipasi dengan mengirimkan berkat-Nya melalui Bank Ganesa .. TV LCD LG 32 " :D ┼┼ee..┼┼ee..┼┼ee..┼┼ee..  ♧ Ʈrima Kasih Tuhan.. Kau mengagumkan.

Happy Valentine's Day

It's Valentine's Day.. Happy Valentine Everyone.. 

 

 It's Valentine.. 

SilverQueen for everyone.. in my department.. :D Ђƺђƺ 

Love is sweet.. Isn't it ~_^

Responsible

Each person responsible for their own act.. image.. value.. attitude.. dignity and stupidity... 

Setiap orang bertanggung jawab atas tindakan.. citra.. nilai.. sikap.. martabat.. dan kebodohan mereka sendiri.

Gong Xi Fa Chai ~ Snake 2013

Sunday - February 10, 2013

Ready to be handed out.. to my nephews & nieces..
and.. my unmarried cousin ђёe..ђёe..ђёe..ђёe..™

Song: Awake And Alive

Listen to the lyrics and enjoy the music... Just awesome.. :)



Awake And Alive

I'm at war with the world
And they try to pull me into the dark
I struggle to find my faith
As I'm slipping from your arms

It's getting harder to stay awake
And my strength is fading fast
You breathe into me at last

I'm awake, I'm alive
Now I know what I believe inside
Now it's my time
I'll do what I want 'cause this is my life

(Here, right now)
Right here, right now
Stand my ground and never back down
I know what I believe inside
I'm awake, and I'm alive

I'm at war with the world
'Cause I ain't never gonna sell my soul
I've already made up my mind
No matter what, I can't be bought or sold

When my faith is getting weak
And I feel like giving in
You breathe into me again

I'm awake, I'm alive
Now I know what I believe inside
Now it's my time
I'll do what I want 'cause this is my life

(Here, right now)
Right here, right now
Stand my ground and never back down
I know what I believe inside
I'm awake, and I'm alive

Waking up, waking up
Waking up, waking up
Waking up, waking up
Waking up, waking up in the dark

I can feel you in my sleep
In your arms, I feel you breathe into me
Forever hold this heart that I will give to you
Forever I will live for you

I'm awake, I'm alive
Now I know what I believe inside
Now it's my time
I'll do what I want 'cause this is my life

(Here, right now)
Right here, right now
Stand my ground and never back down
I know what I believe inside
I'm awake, and I'm alive

Waking up, waking up
Waking up, waking up
Waking up, waking up
Waking up, waking up

Bitter

Today, at lunch time, while we were having coffee at Dunkin Donuts.. a good friend of mine asked me to try his black coffee which he didn't put any sugar in it.. he wanted to know if I strong enough to handle the bitter.. "Yah.. it's only the bitter of coffee.. even angkak (dry fruit that's boiled with water for a medicine) which taste's so terrible.. I could swallow it.." after took a zip.. I said.. "Ahh.. only as bitter as that; even the bitterness of life.. I could pass it.. I could swallow it.. and I could enjoy it too.."  ƗƗɑà..ƗƗɑa..ƗƗɑa..ƗƗɑ.. everyone laugh at my joke.. then my cousin said.. "Wah.. that's deep bro.." ✗ϊ✗ϊ✗ϊ✗ϊ.. What a fun day.. :)

Hari ini, pada waktu makan siang, saat qta sedang minum kopi di Dunkin Donuts.. teman baik gw meminta gw untuk mencoba kopi hitam-nya yang dia gak taruh gula sama skali di dalamnya.. dia ingin tahu apakah gw cukup kuat untuk menangani pahit-nya.. "Yah.. baru pahitnya kopi.. angkak yang rasa aburabul aja..  gw bisa telen.." setelah nenggek se-zip.. gw bilang lagi.. "Ahh.. cuma sepahit itu.. kepahitan hidup aja.. gw bisa lalui.. gw bisa telen.. dan aku bisa nikmatin juga.." ƗƗɑà .. ƗƗɑa .. ƗƗɑa .. ƗƗɑ .. semua orang ketawa ma lelucon gw.. lalu sepupu saya bilang.. "Wah.. dalam itu ko.." ✗ ϊ ✗ ϊ ✗ ϊ ✗ ϊ .. Hari yang menyenangkan :)

JCK Reach Flood Victims

On January 19, 2013 .. Jalinan Cinta Kasih (JCK) reach 3 shelters for flood victims.. Trinity Church Cengkareng, Kampung Melayu & Total in Tangerang. In addition, our seniors/parents are also sending aid directly to the parties that they are familiar with, on behalf of JCK.

Hopefully this disaster ended soon.. so that the refugees can return to their homes, and Jakarta can return to normal.

Hopefully the government can take good lessons from this incident, so they can take a better action, so that a disaster like this does not happen again in the future.

Pada tanggal 19 Januari 2013.. Jalinan Cinta Kasih (JCK) menjangkau 3 tempat posko korban banjir.. Gereja Trinitas Cengkareng, Kampung Melayu & Total di Tangerang. Selain itu senior-senior kita juga mengirim bantuannya langsung kepada pihak-pihak yang mereka kenal dengan mengatasnamakan JCK.

Semoga bencana ini secepatnya usai.. sehingga para pengungsi dapat kembali ke rumah masing; dan Jakarta dapat kembali berjalan normal.

Semoga pemerintahpun dapat mengambil banyak pelajaran dari kejadian ini sehingga dapat mengambil suatu tindakan yang lebih baik, agar bencana seperti ini tidak terulang lagi di masa yang akan datang.

Jakarta Flood

Since Wednesday night, heavy rain soaked Jakarta and surrounding areas.. and water damage to the dikes around Jakarta, making Jakarta inundated.

On Thursday, 17/01/12, Jakarta lame.. flooding in some parts.. and severity even in the Sudirman & Thambrin until in front of the Presidential Palace did not escape from this misfortune.

Sejak Rabu malam, hujan deras membasahi daerah Jakarta dan sekitarnya.. dan kerusakan pada tanggul air di sekitar Jakarta, membuat Jakarta tergenang air. 

Pada hari Kamis 17/01/12 Jakarta lumpuh.. banjir melanda di beberapa bagian.. dan parahnya di daerah Sudirman & Thambrin-pun sampai depan Istana Negara tidak luput dari musibah ini.

Pray for Jakarta

At least 11 dead in Jakarta flooding
Eleven dead in Jakarta floods, 18,000 evacuated: Disaster agency

Pray for Our Country

Bowling Trophies

For encouraging my son.. who starts to like bowling too & he just bought another ball.. Ooh boy.. :D

Get your bowling trophies for me.. :P Just like mine & your dad ~_^
Ooh.. btw.. we just had 1 ball for each of us tho.. :P

Untuk mendorong anak saya .. yang mulai menyukai bowling juga & dia baru saja membeli satu bola lagi... Ooh boy.. : D

Dapatkan piala bowling Anda untuk saya .. : P Sama seperti yang saya punya & daddy kamu ~ _ ^  Ooh .. btw .. kami hanya punya 1 bola untuk masing-masing kira lho>. : P

Only God

 

Hanya Tuhan yang mampu mengubah kekacauan menjadi pesan, 

ujian menjadi kesaksian, percobaan menjadi keberhasilan, 

korban menjadi kemenangan.

Amin.. Yup.. hanya DIA.. ~_^
Bersandarlah hanya pada-Nya.. Andalkan diri-Nya..
bkn manusia-nya.

The Success Indicator

Which one are you..??
Yang manakah anda..??

My New Year Vow

♥ New Year.. New Life.. New Heart.. ♥
More love.. More humble.. More forgiveness.. More caring.. More listening.. More understanding.. and last but not least.. Love & honor God more & more..



♥ Tahun Baru .. Hidup Baru.. Hati Baru .. ♥
Lebih banyak kasih .. Lebih rendah hati .. Lebih mengampuni.. Lebih peduli.. Lebih mendengarkan.. Lebih memahami.. dan terakhir but not least .. Cinta & menghormati Allah lebih & lebih ..