HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO
SAY ABOUT MEN :
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses
for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you
from heartache.
Stop trying to
change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is
better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you
truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you
as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't
mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is
stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think
"it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying
when things are not better. The only person you can control in a
relationship is you. Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch
of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why
would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends
separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If
something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He
will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's
behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is
more important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a
better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing
more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are. Never
borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A
man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are
NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...
Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between
relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your
issues before pursuing a new
relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals. Look for someone complimentary...
not supplementary.
Dating is fun... Even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him
miss you sometimes... When a man always know where you are, and you're
always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move
into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a
man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your
radar but get to know others.
Scared of being alone is what
makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful:
Dr. Phil says... You should know that: You're the best thing that could
ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a
good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that
he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of
choices. Make the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts... ❤
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